Last May, I participated in the first ever Relay for Life of Jaguar Nation. At the time, I had no idea what the event meant to a lot of the people there. As I reflect upon my experience, I have come to understand that like many other participants, I was simply going through the motions. This year, students and outside participants need to take the event more seriously.

During the luminaria ceremony, I noticed many students talking during what should have been a moment of silence. Student participants need to understand that the event is not meant to be a sleepover at the school, but a night of remembrance and hope for those who have fought or are currently fighting for their lives.

I would consider myself guilty of not taking the event as seriously as I should have. I walked my laps every once in awhile when our team leader would get mad at the group for slacking, and I spectated quietly during the luminaria ceremony. I even attended sunrise yoga at 5 am, falling asleep at one point. Many of you can probably relate. However, there comes a moment in time where everything is put into perspective.

This moment of clarity for me came in August when my Papa lost his fight against cancer. Since then, I have realized the enormity of the event, and I have immense gratitude for those who helped to bring it here. I’ve also realized that students, myself included, should take Relay for Life more seriously.

I’m not saying that it can’t be a fun night, but students should remember to be respectful at the appropriate times. I’m also not trying to take anything away from everyone who participated, because the night was obviously a huge success and is something everyone should be proud of. However, by keeping in mind the reason for the event, we can make the next Relay for Life of Jaguar Nation a more positive, respectful environment to honor victims and celebrate survivors.